Should I Have a First Look?
Deciding whether to have a first look before the wedding or wait for the aisle reveal is a personal choice that can set the tone for your wedding day. Both options have unique advantages, and as someone who once thought the traditional aisle moment was the only way, I’ve come to appreciate the beauty of both choices. Let’s explore which option might be best for you.
First Look: Before the Wedding
Privacy
Having a first look before the wedding allows you to share an intimate moment together away from the crowd. This private time lets you soak in each other’s presence and the excitement of the day. It’s also a perfect opportunity to exchange personal gifts or read vows to one another, especially if the thought of speaking heartfelt words in front of many people feels daunting.
Multiple First Looks
Opting for a first look gives you the chance to have more than one special moment. You can create intimate first look experiences with bridesmaids, siblings, parents, or in-laws. Each of these moments can be deeply meaningful and personalized.
More Photos Before the Ceremony
A first look before the ceremony allows you to take many photos ahead of time, freeing up more time after the ceremony to celebrate. With the main photos done—like family formals, bridal party shots, and couple portraits—you can dive into celebrating with your loved ones right after the ceremony.
First Look: Down the Aisle
The Suspense
Choosing to wait for the aisle reveal builds anticipation and excitement as you see each other for the first time in front of your guests. Witnessing your partner’s reaction as you walk down the aisle can be a magical moment, filled with emotion and shared joy.
Sharing the Moment
If you’re someone who enjoys being surrounded by family and friends, seeing each other for the first time during the ceremony can be a beautiful shared experience. This option allows your loved ones to witness this significant moment alongside you.
Photos After the Ceremony
Choosing an aisle reveal doesn’t limit your photo options. It simply means you’ll spend more time taking photos after the ceremony. You’ll still capture all the important shots, with the added bonus of basking in the glow of just having said “I do.”
Which is right for you?
So, should I have a first look before or after the ceremony? The decision is yours, and each choice offers its own special moments and opportunities. Whichever you choose, it will be a cherished part of your wedding day.
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